Every week @tuckermax@charliehoehn and @nilsAparker sit down with me to help with my problems meeting and dating women. I am a 26 year old ginger. I'm a smart, nice, normal guy that doesn't do well with women and just moved to Austin, Texas. They go over my issues, insecurities, and anxieties about sex & dating and they help solve them so I can reach my goals and live a happy life.
Some highlights from this episode:
-I made a critical but hilarious mistake on one first date. It was obvious to Charlie and Tucker what happened, but I was oblivious to it at the time.
-"Joe is exceedingly average. This is a normal dude, and most dudes out there are doing the same sorts of [stupid] things… totally oblivious. And girls are like, ‘What the fuck is going on?’”
-There could be a million reasons why she doesn't show up or cancels a date, don't take it personally.
-With each date, you get more experience and you get it really cheap. You will be better off for next time. Just keep showing up. You will get better.
-The first thing to do on the first date is make her feel comfortable and safe. Just do what’s normal, simple, and easy at the beginning.
-Most guys don’t know how to act natural because they don’t get enough reps.
-The number and strength of relationships has huge health implications, even for things like testosterone.
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