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Franziska Kroll

Feel like a fraud sometimes? How do you overcome imposter syndrome?

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Have you ever had the thought you’ve only succeeded due to luck and not because of your talent or qualifications? And thus, don't feel like you deserve to be where you are? What are your tips and tricks to get your head straight again?
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John Stephen Aïmond Banson
It's normal to feel out of place sometimes; at times it feels like you're pretending to be someone you're not or like you're not an expert or good enough. You fear that if others knew your flaws they might not accept you. But it turns out that: - If you're not a celebrity or a big name in your space, no one is paying much attention to your mistakes (Okay, maybe except for me). - Even experts feel that way too, perhaps even more, as they have their careers on the line. I've learned that imposter syndrome is but a mindset of fear of possible rejection. I think the best way to deal with it is to not be an imposter. You become an imposter because you believe it. - Share like a beginner. - Be open-minded and admit when you're wrong. - Believe in what you say. Confidence is a reflection of what you're thinking. - You will make mistakes 80% of the time, but these mistakes make you authentic. Perfection is overrated.
Franziska Kroll
@blarckat thank you! such important thoughts 🙏
Ivo Scherkamp
I was supposed to lead a team at 25 and had no clue what I was doing. I suppose being open about it always helps
Franziska Kroll
@ivo_scherkamp yes I have also found that people are suprisingly supportive in these situations :)
Chetan Natesh
@ivo_scherkamp not knowing an answer is ok, being the quickest to admit lack of knowledge and quickly being able to gather that knowledge - that is the key.
Franziska Kroll
@chetan_natesh that is a really good and empowering way to look at it :)
Chetan Natesh
@franziska_kroll Thank you Franziska 🙏
Rupal Sharma
Believe in yourself and constantly remind yourself about accepting as things are. Because in reality everything is always different than what you have in your head. Also, having a little luck by your side is not wrong. All you gotta do is change your thought process and think in a direction where you're more content and accepting about almost everything. :)
Franziska Kroll
@rupal_sharma3 that seems like great advice though it's probably easier said than done :)
Rupal Sharma
@franziska_kroll Yeah, the ultimate choice lies within. But its no harm trying!
Aaron O'Leary
I don't have an answer for this, so I'm here watching the comments hoping someone else does 👀
Franziska Kroll
@aaronoleary I feel you!
Maria Noemi Hernandez
Yep, I often feel like this! Are they ever going to find out that I'm a fraud? I try to answer this question quickly: "They are very smart. They would know already, so you're not a fraud!
Franziska Kroll
@mimih_arteaga hahaha I love this!
Catherine Norris
I think the phrase "Act confident and no one will question you" generally is true 😂 In the meantime, trust your intuition, listen to those with experience, always be open to learning, and help those who are also trying to learn and grow.
Franziska Kroll
@catherine_norris that is great advice :)
Yup feel like this all the time - not sure I've really got over it!
Franziska Kroll
@maxwellcdavis Totally! Maybe it's something one never trily gets over
Brooke Melia
Abid Unnisa
I dont think i’ll ever get over it🫠
Franziska Kroll
@abid_unnisa Do you feel it gets better with time and experience?
Abid Unnisa
@franziska_kroll i dont really felt so. But plus point is i keep working to get better and get better opportunities. Optimistic much?😅
Chetan Natesh
Without luck very few succeed. So assuming some of the achieved results was because of luck is in all probability true making it the correct starting point. From there what you need to be honest about is , are you giving 100 % and are you ready to continue giving 100 percent as long as it takes. If yes, then go ahead without fear. Nobody ever did anything with all that was required from step one.
Franziska Kroll
@chetan_natesh I love this! Yes we should accept that also luck is part of the equation and trust that we are where we are for the right reasons!
Chetan Natesh
@franziska_kroll Correct, right reasons for both yourself 😎 and also for the market 🌍🙌
Jonathan Nass
Seeing discussions like this and seeing that everyone else suffers from imposter syndrome is certainly comforting, in an odd way. If everyone is an imposter, then nobody is!
Franziska Kroll
@jonathan_nass OMG yes! It really is! So maybe it is more about the assumptions we have of others than of ourselves?
Jonathan Nass
@franziska_kroll I think it must be! It's easy to look around and think everyone knows what they're doing. I think we're all good at hiding it😅
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