If you could only choose 3 things to know about a person before meeting, what would you choose?
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Thought Experiment: Dating apps let you filter ppl out on superficial things that aren't actually important for long-term compatibility and emotional connection.
I'm curious if you could only have 3 filters/pieces of info, what do you think would be most helpful in understanding if there's potential if you're goal is a long-term relationship?
Assume location, age, gender, and relationship status are already given.
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Ok, these are not standard answers and probably not what you ask on a pickleball court on a first date 😬🤣, but here you go!
How you fight and how you repair, (not sure exactly how to get to authentic answers on this one but it ends up being pretty important!)
What brings you energy, what depletes you, and how you find your energy again.
Are you self-aware of your own triggers and are you open to working on them?