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How to say no. - Templates to help you say no in any situation

Saying no is hard, but essential to your own productivity (and sanity). Here are some templates you can use, including some examples from Naval, Tim Ferriss, Casey Neistat, and more!

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Pat Walls
Hey everyone - I've been trying to say "no" more often. For example... - How to say no to "coffee" - How to say no to extra projects - How to say no to unnecessary meetings - the list goes on... I put together this little "mini-site" of alllll the different situations where you might want to say "no", as well as some pretty neat templates from Naval, Tim Ferriss, Paul Graham, Casey Neistat, etc. I hope it inspires you to say no! (you can also download the templates into Pigeon (my Gmail plugin) for easy use - but that is completely optional!)
Mike Rubini
@thepatwalls Looks useful! Glad that we are both launching something on the same day Pat!
Pat Walls
@mikerubini Haha! Congrats on your launch looks great :)
Raman Ksaitor
@thepatwalls my personal favorite "How to say no to an appearance on a brand new podcast." More useful than the others!
Pat Walls
@ksaitor I use that one all the time.
Neel Sarode
Dakota Felder
Does what the DARE program never could
Pat Walls
@dakota_felder Haha! next project "howtosaynotodrugs.com" !!
Edgaras
Nice. Radical Candor :)
Pat Walls
@edgarascom Exactly!
Primer
@edgarascom Well... except it isn't radical candor. I just read all of them and most of them reek of BS. "I'd love to do that thing, but...." No - if you'd love to do it, you'd do it.
Edgaras
@mickc79 I think you should have quoted what's after "but...". Because those are important conditions.
Primer
@edgarascom Well the point is that it doesn't matter what comes after the point. If you'd love to do something, then you'd do it. Clearly this person wouldn't love to do it. Please google "everything after the word but". This is a well known thing.
Edgaras
@mickc79 mmm, the unconditional love is the best... 🧡
Anthony Dike 🌻🐝
I like it. Good job compiling it all 👏
Pat Walls
@antdke Thanks Anthony! Trying to find more famous people examples so if you find anymore let me know so I can add!
Marc Montagne
Literally every single day I'm facing those situation and wished I could have these templates. A big THANK YOU!
Pat Walls
@marcaime glad it can help, even just a littel! although saying no is easier said than done! And it's a lot easier over email than in person :)
Vincent Denise
Hi Pat! It's definitely something we need to save time with our support. Request: Some templates for how to say no to VCs.
Pat Walls
@yesnoornext Added!! Great tip keep em coming :)
Emelie Klasson
This is really great. Being Swedish, this is definitely something I could have use for in many situations. Well done! :)
Pat Walls
@emelie Thanks Emilie, is it harder to say "no" as a Swede? :P
Emelie Klasson
@thepatwalls haha, I think we're being known for not being very straight forward. Which quite often puts us in awkward situations.
Andrey Azimov
Waiting next how to say yes :D
Pat Walls
@andreyazimov "How to do things that don't scale."
Anna Filou
I love this way more than I expected! 😍 Would be awesome if you could add more templates in time. But who dumps someone they’re dating over email, of all things? 😂
Pat Walls
@anna_0x Hahaha that's rock bottom right there.
Oleg Stirbu
This is great! thanks for making it.
Pat Walls
@ostirbu Thanks Oleg!!
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