WithYou is a private app for two people sharing a life. Most couples duct-tape together Google Docs, reminder texts, and anxious "we need to talk about our finances" conversations. WithYou makes the invisible work of running a life together visible to both partners. Shared tasks, couple calendar, shopping lists, bill reminders, shared goals with journals, weekly check-ins, and appreciations. No scores, no streaks, no nagging. If one partner goes Pro, both do. Free on iOS and Android.
Hey everyone - Vasu here, the builder behind WithYou.
The honest version of why I built this: I got tired of coordination being a source of friction in relationships where there's actually a lot of love.
Couples are smart people. They know they should be on the same page. But there's no good tool for it. So they use whatever's at hand: a shared Notes doc that one person updates, a text thread that gets buried, a "we should really sit down and talk about the calendar" conversation that gets postponed for weeks.
WithYou is my attempt to make a tool that feels like it belongs in a relationship, not a startup. Warm. Private. No gamification, no scores, no streak anxiety. Just two people with a clear shared picture of what they're building together.
The thing I've heard most from early users: "I didn't realize how much I was carrying until I could actually see it laid out." That's the win. Not productivity. Not optimization. Just visibility and appreciation for each other's effort.
A few things I'm still figuring out and would love your take on:
- The weekly check-in format (3 rotating questions: too many? too few?)
- The right balance between "couple coordination" and feeling like a warm emotional space (versus a project tracker)
- Features you'd want that aren't here yet
Drop your thoughts below. I read every comment and will respond to as many as I can today. And if you download it: thank you. Genuinely.
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Finally tried this with my partner and the shared grocery list alone saved us a dozen texts this week. Love that there's no streak guilt built in.
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@sezerhalezcsyv glad that this app is of use for you and your partner. Do you have any further feedback for me?
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Finally tried this with my partner and the shared grocery list alone saved us a dozen texts this week. Love that there's no streak guilt built in.
@sezerhalezcsyv glad that this app is of use for you and your partner. Do you have any further feedback for me?