how are you actually keeping up with AI tools without drowning?

Honest question for this forum.

I save AI tool threads constantly. New model drops, someone's slick Cursor workflow, "10 tools that'll change everything." I open maybe one in twenty. And I still feel behind every single week.

Lately I think the problem isn't information, there's an ocean of it. The problem is that almost all of it tells you about AI instead of showing you. A thread describes a workflow. A launch video is scripted so everything works on the first try. None of it shows the real thing: the prompt someone throws away, the tool they reach for and why, the moment it breaks and how they dig out.

And that's the part that actually teaches you. Nobody got good at cooking from recipes or at chess from the rulebook. You get good watching people better than you do the real work.

For vibe coders especially this feels true. Half of what I've learned came from watching someone build live, not from docs.

So genuinely: how do you keep up? Do you watch people build, read, just try stuff? What's actually moved your skill and not just your bookmark count?